About

The story behind Date With Self

Sakshi’s journey from quiet disconnection to a movement of self-reconnection.

I am Sakshi, an Architect and Self-Awareness & Emotional Healing Coach — and the Founder of Date With Self, a transformational coaching brand built for people who appear successful on the outside but feel quietly disconnected on the inside.

My story did not begin with a dramatic breakthrough. It began with a quiet, persistent pain that most people never talk about: the exhaustion of not feeling good enough. Of working hard and still freezing. Of giving everything to people who never truly saw her. Of living on autopilot while wondering, in private, why nothing felt like enough.

What changed was not a dramatic event. It was a book — Mirror Work by Louise Hay — and a willingness to begin. From there, I moved deeper into meditation, healing practices, and the long, honest process of choosing myself again and again.

She healed from depression. From anxiety attacks. From a self-critical inner voice she had mistaken for truth. She went from a person who could barely speak about herself to someone who teaches, coaches, and guides others with clarity, compassion, and full presence.

What she discovered through that journey was this: most people are not broken. They are simply disconnected from themselves. And when a person truly reconnects — with their worth, their voice, their inner patterns, their authentic self — everything changes. Not because the world shifts, but because they do.

Silva UltraMind Certified CoachCertified Mindfulness CoachHo'oponopono Healing PractitionerArchitect (B.Arch)

Timeline

Childhood

The Freeze

Froze on stage at six years old and carried that freeze for decades. Bullying in school taught her to stay silent when mocked.

Young Adult

Invisible to Herself

Architecture school — poured herself into work but could not bring herself to speak. Over-giving, seeking approval, living for others' validation.

Turning Point

Mirror Work

Louise Hay's Mirror Work sparked the beginning. A slow, courageous choice to look inward instead of outward.

Healing

Coming Home

Journey through Silva UltraMind, EFT, Ho'oponopono, and identity work. Healed from depression, anxiety, and crippling self-criticism.

Today

Date With Self

Founded a coaching ecosystem to guide others from self-disconnection to self-mastery — teaching from lived truth, not theory alone.

Methodology

Self-Awareness Practices

Observation, journaling, and pattern recognition to see clearly for the first time.

Emotional Healing

Ho'oponopono, EFT, and emotional processing to release what has been held.

Identity Transformation

Belief rewiring, SBFAR model, and conscious identity shift work.

Conscious Manifestation

Science-backed change plus aligned action from a healed inner state.